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I was recently asked if I could recommend some arse play / prostate stimulators. And in the words of the Sally …. yes, yes, yees, yes, YESSSS! And so here are my recommendations for really getting your ass excited and your cock ready for some mind blowing orgasms!
These are presented in price order, getting more expensive as they go on, but all offer something of a buzz! And don’t forget the lube…
Rocks Off Raspberry (19.99)
Not sold directly as a “prostate stimulator / massager” this little bundle of joy deserves its place here. Small, perfectly formed and with their own RO-80mm Bullet Vibrator this definitely packs a punch! The vibrator can be removed easily for super easy clean up.
If you want to feel a little something inside your hole that is a bit more exciting then just a butt plug this is a good place to start. But if you are experienced in some anal play, maybe skip down a few places.
Rocks Off Rock Quest (£24.99)
Now we get serious … the perfect place for prostate beginners to start. This affordable bundle of joy is small, discrete and perfectly sized. The silicone ring on the outside is comforting to know about … particularly if you get a bit greedy and start to suck it up as you ride it!
The Quest has 10 speed sensations / speed settings that you can go through using the button the base to find the one that really works for you. And this has a really nice bonus … 100% waterproof! This will really help make bathtime one to remember!!
This is going to be an ongoing blog series, four questions about me and my work. If there is a question you would like to see answered please send over and I will add it to the list for a future post.
Are massage treatments on a massage couch or bed?
My standard practice for sensual, tantric massages is to use my treatment table. The table has an gently heated to keep you warm, and also has motors to allow me to easily adjust the height whilst you are on it. Or to make it easier for you to get on or off the table.
The massage table allows me easy access to work all around you, ensuring lots of touch and long gliding strokes working the entire length of your body from head to toe. The table can also be used for Bodyglide treatments for lots of full body contact.
If you prefer to have a massage on a bed please let me know in advance and I can make sure that is available for the treatment.
I’ve never been naked with or touched by another man and feel very nervous and unsure if it is for me.
Many of my clients come to me for their first intimate male experience, it is a safe, discreet environment for it. We start slowly and any limits on anything you don’t want me to do are always respected. Throughout the time you can say no or stop at any time and we will immediately stop.
This a time for you to enjoy, to relax and to experience something you may have fantasied about. I will do my best to help you relax, feel at ease and to enjoy the time.
It is also the opportunity for you to try something new, knowing that you won’t have to do anything you don’t to.
Can I touch / massage you?
Absolutely – I love being touched! Some clients like to touch me, play with my cock during the treatment which is wonderful, others like for me to lie on the table and let them massage and explore another mans body.
This is time for you to enjoy how you wish.
Do I need to be covered with a towel?
No, most of the massages are done without any towels or draping – unless you would prefer to have one.
This is a treatment that has lots of body to body contact throughout.
It starts off like other treatments, you changing into a robe in private. We then go through a short relaxation and once you stand up I start to explore your body through the robe. And when ready I slowly undress you and begin to touch and explore your naked body – as you can mine.
Once on the table you will be slowly drenched in warm (unscented) oil, and then feel my hands all glide effortlessly all over your body. The idea of the bodyglide is to reduce all friction and barriers – the oil is topped up so that my hands just glide all over you, around your buttocks, your back, your arms, your legs, between your thighs etc.
And then my body – total male to male body contact sliding, gliding and exploring each others. My cock rubbing against yours and over your body. Hands, body, cocks, lips all free to touch and explore.