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The festive season is well and truly upon us now! But what to buy that boy / Sir / pup / pervert in your life? Here are some of my kinky Christmas present suggestions!
Short Rubber Covered Cane (£6.99)
Canes, oh the fun you can have with a simple cane and masochist! These short canes are great for using across the body, used gently a little reminder of who’s in charge or more forcefully for disciplining!
The small size allows for easy control, and packing away in an overnight bag for trips away or even a local BDSM play club.
And at just £7.00 the perfect stocking filler!
Spunk Hybrid Lube (£12.99)
Quite frankly lube makes for better sex! And good lube makes for amazing sex. Spunk lube is one of my favourite lubes on the market at the moment for fucking and play (I prefer powder lubes for Fisting and big toy ass play).
The name comes from the fact it looks like spunk, not really a selling point for me … the best bit is how well it works! It is a silicone hybrid lube so condom and rubber gear safe but also washes off super easily. And if it starts to dry a little when playing just add some water / spit / piss to get it all slippery again!
Tasteless, hypo-allergenic and all those other things you read about that sound good. But ultimately this does a great job of keeping your cock sliding in the bottoms hole! What more could you ask for in a lube.
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What are your views on the ethics of kink?
This question I, and it appears others, struggled with – in what context are they asking question. Kink in terms of a lifestyle choice and the general morality of kinky action, or the ethics by which we play?
There are those who see sex as purely for the procreation of a species, they either don’t understand or believe it can be an activity that people can participate in for the simple reason of enjoyment or pleasure. Imagine the idea of sex that doesn’t revolve around, or quite often even involve, your cock. Well that’s just crazy talk!
I’ve had a very busy few weeks, and this week is now fully booked. If you want an appointment you need to ideally book a few days or week in advance now to guarantee availability. I’ll always try to fit you in when possible, but last minute appointments can be hard some days. If I don’t answer the phone an email is often the best way of getting hold of me.
I’ve also been shopping recently, I’ve got a host of new eStim Systems goodies including their latest powerbox the ElectroPebble. So if you are interested in Electrosex play there is definitely something for you to get excited about. I’ll be doing a full write up of the new powerbox in the coming week – I’m really excited about it. Lots of fun modes and things to do with it!! And some new electrodes too.