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Mike McNamee, probably not a name you are familiar with. But one that the Leather community the world over will know the influence of. Mike was the founder and original owner of a store many have visited or certainly heard of – Stompers Boots in San Francisco.
I was saddened to read this morning of the death of Mike, someone I had the pleasure of meeting twice. And both times boots where of course involved! The first was a to the store back in around September 2011, when I ordered one pair of boots, and bought another. Both I still have with me and wear regularly … remember good boots are built to last.
This wasn’t my first visit to SF or indeed to Stompers, but it was to be the first two pairs of boots I bought! Only one of them was planned. I’d finally have an opportunity to order my first pair of Wesco boots – 11″ Harness boots.
When investing in custom fit gear you want to make sure you have your measurements correct. You can’t return them! So having someone experienced do the order is beneficial, and Stompers offered a discount by ordering through them.
Mike was of course excellent in taking the measurements, and making advice on the style, finish and fitting. Fitting and chatting done, time to pay … but then something caught my eye. Of course every wall of the store was covered boots, the store room floor to ceiling packed with boxes! But there was something I noticed, it was actually one of the most popular boots Mike sold I believe. They are Corcoran 985 10″ Black Leather Side Zip Boots.
June was a busy month for me, not least because I took the opportunity to redecorate the Dungeon!
I’m really pleased with the new look, not a huge change, new flooring, some new painting, changing of storage and displays and a new Geardrobe full of kit to wear … for Sir and slaves!
So if you are looking for a session call 07516 036 105 to get booked in! Here is a preview of some of the changes and gear in the dungeon now.
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I have lots of gear and kit, mostly Leather but the variety includes rubber, lycra, pvc, hi-vis, sports kit, and a variety of jocks and pants! So if you prefer some loose fitting footy shorts, or lycra cycling kit I’m sure I have something to wear you will find horny and fun to submit to.
One of the things several people have commented on is that they would like to play / serve wearing some sort of gear.
So I now have a collection of Jockstraps in a variety of colours and sizes and matching football socks. An absolutely classic and very horny combination! I am also looking at building a collection of Boys Boots too – details of those will come to complete the set.
List your kinks.
The list is very long! But an outline of primary interests would be (alphabetically so they can’t be assumed to be in any preference order:
Ass play – Fucking is quite low on my interest list, doesn’t do much for me. But I love to play with a willing hole, from introducing it to the joys of ass play with just a finger or small dildo and vibrator through to huge toys, stretching and fisting. Whilst I don’t particularly enjoy fucking I do enjoy using a strap on, partly because I can choose a cock to fit the hole perfectly or just to stretch it a little as needed.
Bondage – Restriction, lack of movement, control, vulnerability. There are so many ways to explore bondage too – just a pair of handcuffs / leather cuffs, through to straight jackets, sleep sacks, bondage chairs or even suspension.
Boots – Love boots, my favourite makes are Wesco and Grinders, but also love things like rigger boots cat style boots, biker (have a pair of RST race boots).
CBT – the most precious and sensitive part of a man, and somewhere you can have so much fun playing with them! It’s quite amazing how many love having their balls abused.
Flogging – lots of people thing flogging is all about pain and marking. There is so much more to it! I have a delicious collection of floggers in a variety of hides all giving different experiences and there is so much you can do without the worry of marking the skin, no more than some redness from the warmth of the play that dissipates very quickly. I love flogging as you can go on a real journey from light gentle stroking touch to very heavy intense impact play and lots of places inbetween.
Leather – My biggest fetish, love the look, feel, smell, taste of leather.