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Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
It’s all about my favourite sexual organ – the brain! Blow jobs and fucking can be fun … but kink play is so much more, and so much better!! It is the personal connection, the power, the intensity of it, also the gear and toys too!
Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.
I’m sure we have all had scenes and moments that no matter how intense or horny something has just switched and its ended up in fits of giggles. I can’t think of any specific moments, but I have to admit I always find the pups a real source of amusement. They can just be too adorable!
I think sometimes people need to remember to lighten up and not take themselves too seriously. This is something we do for fun, for pleasure – you can smile and laugh, that’s ok!
What are your views on the ethics of kink?
This question I, and it appears others, struggled with – in what context are they asking question. Kink in terms of a lifestyle choice and the general morality of kinky action, or the ethics by which we play?
There are those who see sex as purely for the procreation of a species, they either don’t understand or believe it can be an activity that people can participate in for the simple reason of enjoyment or pleasure. Imagine the idea of sex that doesn’t revolve around, or quite often even involve, your cock. Well that’s just crazy talk!
Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.
This was a difficult one! I’m not a big music person, I have some old albums and random playlists I may put on. Music for me is usually what Radio 2 is playing as that is my default way of listening to it. But there is one music video I love, it has a loose kink link. The lead singer used to dance at The Cock, its filmed in one of my favourite cities (New York) and the band look damned sexy in it – particularly Babydaddy!