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A lot of people assume that a session with me is all about the “yes Sir” – domination, Master / slave sub / Dom roleplay. Or it’s about pain when we talk about BDSM. It often is, but it doesn’t have to be!
Whenever I am asked what I do I describe myself as a “Professional Fetish Escort”. Some may say Pro Dom but I find that is too specific. I love domination, I love control, I love exploring people’s masochistic side with them. But that isn’t everything I do.
Now if you look through my website you see a common theme – leather and boots. These are two of my biggest gear fetishes! And they are incredibly popular with others I’m pleased to say. But I also have a lot of other gear too, or maybe it doesn’t have to involve gear – let’s just get naked and play around!
So, what do I do – what do I mean by Fetish Escort?
Well, I see my role is to help you explore your kink, your fetish … *your* sexuality and your fantasies and desires. If you want the Leather Master … great! But if you are looking for something more relaxed and maybe just want to try playing around with some mutual fun … perfect we can do that too!
For example, I’ve had people who wanted to try out a bondage chair, a sling, e-stim, or maybe see how a flogging feels. Some have just wanted to try out some gear before they bought their own … finding what a heavy leather hood, fucking machine or rubber vav-rac is like.
And we can do all of that in safe, relaxed space no “Yes Sir” required, just an open mind to see what works for you. It doesn’t always have to be fetish or kink related either.
I’m an excellent massage therapist and can give you the most amazing naked erotic massage, and these are really popular with people who maybe haven’t been with a guy before.
They just want to feel that intimate touch, and to know they are free to touch and explore too without worry about doing something wrong. These massages can be on my regular massage table or maybe the bondage table in the playroom … Some people like the idea of a little light bondage being added to add to the excitement.
Or maybe you would prefer on the bed – naked exploring each other’s bodies and talking about your fantasies.
I also like to think I can help people other aspects of themselves. I have had both male and female crossdressers and transgender visitors. I know lots of guys just love the look and feel of dressing in women’s clothes and underwear- it makes them feel sexy. But they don’t feel they can share that part of themselves with someone else.
Now there are some amazing dressing services around the country for TGirls, and they do a wonderful service! But maybe you want to explore the sexy side I can help with that!
That could just be wearing lingerie like stockings, suspenders and a bra or it can go to being a sissy sucking the cock of a 6foot 2 Leather Man or getting fucked by him with a strap-on for the ultimate pegging experience.
And of course, there are also trans guys too who want to explore their sexuality.
I’ve had guys visit who are incredibly confident in themselves but didn’t feel 100% confident in asking for the sex they wanted or how to explore it.
So yeah, it can be domination and consensual abuse, or it can be just hanging out naked.
Whatever your desire… I can help you explore it without judgement, and hopefully help you make some great memories for your own wank bank.
As Frank once sang, and now the end is near its time to face the final curtain. And that end is to say goodbye to 2016 in just over a weeks time! This year has flown by, and you have filled it with so many great memories for me.Read More …
I’ve done it, spent five long days stuck inside the maze of halls that is the Spring Fair at the NEC, Birmingham. Walking from hall to hall, getting the shuttle bus around to the far side because its just so huge and paying over the odds for a crappy sandwich and cup of coffee.
So if you are visiting the West Midlands to spend a week at the UK’s largest stationary and gift show, why not make it a trip to remember and live out those fantasies.
I’m available for incalls in Wolverhampton (35mins by train from the NEC) or I offer a special outcall rate for hotels in Birmingham or at the NEC – £30 on top of my standard rates, this covers travel and parking.
I can bring just myself, a change of clothes to wear something that really gets the heart pacing (suit, sports kit, leather, rubber, biker gear, workie boots and gear, stockings and suspenders, lacey knickers – the choice is yours).
Or if you are looking for a dinner date I can recommend a host of cafe’s, restaurants and bars in Birmingham from proper boozers, the best Chinese, through to Michelin starred dinning. You choose the style and budget, and I’ll make it a night to remember.
As one client told me, he didn’t just want an escort … he wanted an experience to remember!
This is going to be an ongoing blog series, four questions about me and my work. If there is a question you would like to see answered please send over and I will add it to the list for a future post.
Are massage treatments on a massage couch or bed?
My standard practice for sensual, tantric massages is to use my treatment table. The table has an gently heated to keep you warm, and also has motors to allow me to easily adjust the height whilst you are on it. Or to make it easier for you to get on or off the table.
The massage table allows me easy access to work all around you, ensuring lots of touch and long gliding strokes working the entire length of your body from head to toe. The table can also be used for Bodyglide treatments for lots of full body contact.
If you prefer to have a massage on a bed please let me know in advance and I can make sure that is available for the treatment.
I’ve never been naked with or touched by another man and feel very nervous and unsure if it is for me.
Many of my clients come to me for their first intimate male experience, it is a safe, discreet environment for it. We start slowly and any limits on anything you don’t want me to do are always respected. Throughout the time you can say no or stop at any time and we will immediately stop.
This a time for you to enjoy, to relax and to experience something you may have fantasied about. I will do my best to help you relax, feel at ease and to enjoy the time.
It is also the opportunity for you to try something new, knowing that you won’t have to do anything you don’t to.
Can I touch / massage you?
Absolutely – I love being touched! Some clients like to touch me, play with my cock during the treatment which is wonderful, others like for me to lie on the table and let them massage and explore another mans body.
This is time for you to enjoy how you wish.
Do I need to be covered with a towel?
No, most of the massages are done without any towels or draping – unless you would prefer to have one.
For some sessions, particularly longer bookings, I do require a deposit paying. Also for repeated no-shows I will ask for payment in full at time of booking.
I do however understand that for reasons of confidentiality and discretion the usual methods by which such payments would usually be made (credit / debit card, bank transfer etc) may not be appropriate.
I am pleased to be able to now offer a safe, secure and fully anonymous cash payment option for deposits.
If you visit your local PayPoint store (often corner shops, news agents etc) you can buy a “PaySafeCard” (https://www.paysafecard.com/en-gb/products/paysafecard/) voucher in cash – you do not need to give your name, phone number or show any identity. The transaction is completely anonymous.
You can find your nearest PayPoint retailer on their website here: https://www.paypoint.com/en-gb
The receipt you will get from the PayPoint terminal will contain a 16 digit PIN number – a bit like a phone credit top up. Once you have this number you can call me on 07516 036 105, I can then use this to top up my account with the amount your purchased and then the deposit is complete, safe secure and anonymous.