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Four Questions #4

9th December 2015

This is going to be an ongoing blog series, four questions about me and my work. If there is a question you would like to see answered please send over and I will add it to the list for a future post.

Are massage treatments on a massage couch or bed?
My standard practice for sensual, tantric massages is to use my treatment table. The table has an gently heated to keep you warm, and also has motors to allow me to easily adjust the height whilst you are on it. Or to make it easier for you to get on or off the table.

The massage table allows me easy access to work all around you, ensuring lots of touch and long gliding strokes working the entire length of your body from head to toe. The table can also be used for Bodyglide treatments for lots of full body contact.

If you prefer to have a massage on a bed please let me know in advance and I can make sure that is available for the treatment.

I’ve never been naked with or touched by another man and feel very nervous and unsure if it is for me.
Many of my clients come to me for their first intimate male experience, it is a safe, discreet environment for it. We start slowly and any limits on anything you don’t want me to do are always respected. Throughout the time you can say no or stop at any time and we will immediately stop.

This a time for you to enjoy, to relax and to experience something you may have fantasied about. I will do my best to help you relax, feel at ease and to enjoy the time.

It is also the opportunity for you to try something new, knowing that you won’t have to do anything you don’t to.

Can I touch / massage you?
Absolutely – I love being touched! Some clients like to touch me, play with my cock during the treatment which is wonderful, others like for me to lie on the table and let them massage and explore another mans body.

This is time for you to enjoy how you wish.

Do I need to be covered with a towel?
No, most of the massages are done without any towels or draping – unless you would prefer to have one.

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Four Questions #3

6th October 2015

This is going to be an ongoing blog series, four questions about me and my work. If there is a question you would like to see answered please send over and I will add it to the list for a future post.

What are you views about safe sex and / or bareback sex?
I only practice safer sex – absolutely no bareback.

I am also regularly checked and screened for HIV, Hep and all other STD’s to ensure my own personal safety and wellbeing as well as that of my clients.

I know many people prefer or will only have bareback anal sex, they each have different reasons – some don’t like the feel of condoms, some say they can’t stay hard with a condom on, some say it’s just not as much fun with a condom on. I don’t judge anyone who wants to fuck bareback / raw …  I’m just not sure a lifetime of daily pills, blood tests and associated side effects just is it for a fuck. No matter how good it is.

And it is also important to remember that the only side effect is bareback sex isn’t HIV, it is countless other STI’s that can be passed on too. So please – don’t ask me to fuck without a condom.

I also use condoms on my toys, and they are all washed after use, sanitised in hospital grade disinfectant after use.

How do you like clients to feel about the experience when they leave?
I asked a client once, and all he could manage through his beaming smile was “Wow”. I like my clients to feel they have and the experience they were looking for, and ideally it surpassed their expectations.

I want them to feel they had an amazing time, experienced something special that they can remember and enjoy thinking about it.

I’m coming from work can I have a shower?
Of course, I have shower facilities and fresh clean towels for you to use before and after your session if you wish.

Whats your favourite ice cream?
Many years ago a friend told me they always ask this question on dates or in job interviews. They said everyone has a favourite, and you know it straight away – if you have to think too long or hard about it your trying to say something to impress, not what your preference is.

And for me, the answer is always Mint Choc Chip, or Ben & Jerry’s Caramel Chew Chew.

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Four Questions #2

26th July 2015

This is going to be an ongoing blog series, four questions about me and my work. If there is a question you would like to see answered please send over and I will add it to the list for a future post.

What are 5 things you can’t live without?

1) The internet
2) TiVo
3) Good friends
4) Good food
5) A positive optimistic outlook

What are your favourite condoms, lube, enemas, etc… ? Recommendations?

All depends on the activity! For anal play (be it a fingering or fisting) I always wear black Nitrile gloves. Black because they look sexy, and Nitrile as they are stronger and don’t grip the skin / hairs.

For condoms I tend to use Mates natural and king size either on dicks or toys. Then all toys are washed after each session and cleaned with a hospital grade disinfectant.

I have a few preferences on lube – for everyday lube either Liquid Silk or Super Slick .. the later tastes quite nice 😉 or for bigger toys / fisting play X-Lube or Fist Powder work amazingly well! Super super slippery, and you can mix to the desired consistency and unlike J-Lube washing after is really easy!

Or of course for fisting there is always the classic Crisco which remains a first favourite of greedy holes around the world.

Are you discreet?

100%. I never talk about my clients with anyone else, what happens is between you and I. If I am ever in a situation that I was to meet a client I would never acknowledge them or the fact they have been to see me. No records of visits are recorded or saved.

Wine or beer?

Wine, always wine over beer! I have never enjoyed any types of beers – ales, largers, bitters, stouts etc. Wine on the other hand I always enjoy – particularly a good Rioja or Malbec for a red, or Californian Chardonnay or New Zealand Sauvignon Blanc for white. If looking at bubbles Ruinart Bland de Blanc or even the superb English sparkling wine Nyetimber.

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Four Questions

1st July 2015

This is going to be an ongoing blog series, four questions about me and my work. If there is a question you would like to see answered please send over and I will add it to the list for a future post.

For how long have you been an escort?

Over 8 years now, and counting.

What do you enjoy most about the job?

The men I meet and helping guys explore their sexual fantasies, fetishes or desires. Or just giving them some time to forget about the outside world and have some ‘me time’.

I have had the pleasure of the company of men of many ages – 25 to 75 I’d say. And I really love seeing their reactions and their enjoyment from the time we spend together. That is very special to me.

For massage treatments are you naked?

Usually yes, though some clients do have preferences to certain types of clothing they like to see or feel such as lycra, panties, stockings, leather, trackies, jock strap etc. All of which is absolutely fine.

What’s your favourite cartoon?

As a kid I always loved Cities of Gold, Trapdoor and He-Man. Can’t imagine why the last one!

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