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30 Days of Kink: Day 21

18th March 2018

Day 21: Favourite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)
I don’t really read that much fiction (kink or not), I get too easily distracted.

But I do love to read things to educate and extend my knowledge, and am building up quite a nice library of kink related books / magazines.

Notable titles that I have enjoyed include (in no particular order):

I also have a collection of some great photography books:

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30 Days of Kink: Day 20

15th December 2016

Day 20: Talk about something within kink / BDSM that you’re curious about/don’t understand.
One aspect of kink play that fascinates me that I don’t really understand or ‘get’ myself is that of age roleplay – adult babies, school boys / girls etc.

It is just something I can’t relate to, and I don’t have the experience or knowledge to build a strong role play scenario. But that doesn’t mean I’m not interested in learning more about it.
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30 Days of Kink: Day 19

14th December 2016

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they?
It most definitely has! It has opened up my social circle to include some of the most amazing people I the world, from across the world!

I definitely feel my life has been very enriched by my interests in kink.

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30 Days of Kink: Day 18

6th October 2016

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?

Two words … “no limits”.

The amount of times I have seen or read this, people who really don’t understand the difference between fantasy and reality. When going through play negotiation when asked what are they into / would they like the worst answers can also include:

  • Whatever you want to do
  • I don’t mind, I just want to submit and get used / abused

When people say any of the above I ask about a hard caning – one that may leave marks, or how about some needle play, fisting, toilet use? How about sissyfication and putting you in a lovely frilly dress and nappy? How about a branding scene?

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30 Days of Kink: Day 17

4th October 2016

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

We are deviants and perverts, but we are also regular people who enjoy a nice proper cup of tea.

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