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Kinky Christmas Present Ideas

13th December 2016

The festive season is well and truly upon us now! But what to buy that boy / Sir / pup / pervert in your life? Here are some of my kinky Christmas present suggestions!

Happy Kinkmas!

Short Rubber Covered Cane (£6.99)
Canes, oh the fun you can have with a simple cane and masochist! These short canes are great for using across the body, used gently a little reminder of who’s in charge or more forcefully for disciplining!

The small size allows for easy control, and packing away in an overnight bag for trips away or even a local BDSM play club.

And at just £7.00 the perfect stocking filler!

Spunk Hybrid Lube (£12.99)
Quite frankly lube makes for better sex! And good lube makes for amazing sex. Spunk lube is one of my favourite lubes on the market at the moment for fucking and play (I prefer powder lubes for Fisting and big toy ass play).

The name comes from the fact it looks like spunk, not really a selling point for me … the best bit is how well it works! It is a silicone hybrid lube so condom and rubber gear safe but also washes off super easily. And if it starts to dry a little when playing just add some water / spit / piss to get it all slippery again!

Tasteless, hypo-allergenic and all those other things you read about that sound good. But ultimately this does a great job of keeping your cock sliding in the bottoms hole! What more could you ask for in a lube.

Doxy Wand Vibrator (£78.99)
Vibrators, and particularly this wand variety, are often seen as only for the ladies. They are great, and some of the female subs I’ve played with have certainly enjoyed the vibrators I have but they aren’t just for girls. Oh no!!

There is so much fun you can have with a sub when tied up, his dick and arse at your mercy from the relentless pleasure and stimulation. Get a butt plug up his ass and then position a powerful vibrator just in the right place and watch them squirm! And then turn up the intensity … and for intensity they don’t come much more powerful then this beast!

You can also get several adapters for ass play and cock sleeves to really help push over the edge. You won’t be disappointed!

Padded Leather Wrist Cuffs (£79.99)
You don’t need loads of furniture, rope, or restraints for a great session. If i’m travelling with a play buddy quite often all I will pack are some toys, a pair of these wrist cuffs and a few clips and a vibrator.

These are probably some of the most comfortable leather wrist restraints I’ve had the pleasure of using (the ankle and thigh ones are equally good), and they look amazing when on someone, even better when you add some padlocks. And these have become even better now with the option of eight colours to choose from for the leather padding. A perfect statement for a sub to wear out to your local Leather bar or event.

E-Stim ElectroPebble (£149.00)
E-Stim is a great addition to any kink play. It very much can be from mild to wild … and within the push of a button or turn of a knob.

There are plenty of e-stim powerboxes on the market, but this is one of the best in my view! Particularly if you are looking to experiment with it for the first time. Designed and manufactured in the UK this little box offers a lot for the price. Firstly, this isn’t just a rehashed TENS box, this is a bespoke unit designed by people who have a passion for quality electro play! It’s dual channel – so you can have electodes on different parts of the body doing different things at different levels. For example a set on the cock and balls and then an electro butt plug – you can drive someone wild and to a hands free orgasm with that combo!

It also has a built in microphone for audio stimulation – Let It Go becomes a whole new experience then!! And finally 9 different programmes for different experiences and sensations.

I have one of these already and love it so much!

Double Rigid Irons – Boot Size (£185.00)
These are a classic design – wrists and ankles held in a line. No escape, and not really very comfortable – perfect for reminding the sub who is boss!

Sat on their ass, or my faveourite – face down hole in the air ready for a beating / fucking!

These are the boot size pair so will fit over a pair of boots, but you can also get standard ankle size for those who prefer subs completely naked! I’m a big fan of metal restraints, and will admit prefer the natural metal finish to the black ones – but that is of course my personal preference.

Square Peg Slink (£69.99 – £354.99)
Square Peg toys from the USA have a reputation for designing and making some of the worlds best ass toys! And rightly so!!

With toys from small plugs for assplay newbies to huge long toys for total ass pigs they have something for everyone and the slink range are amazing for those looking explore depth play! These bad boys start at 12″ in length, working up to 24″.

The soft bronze silicone is very supple and the shape will ensure it wriggles itself deep inside your guts. Be prepared for an ass experience and orgasm like no other!

Padded Sit Sling (£359.00)
Slings are great! I love my leather Master-U sling but they can also come in a variety of styles and positions.

The sit sling is one of those such things, instead of lying back you are held in a more upright sitting position that gives easy access to the cock and balls and of course ass. This gives a great comfortable introduction to suspension play as well. You can use a belt or wrist restraints to keep the body in an upright position too.

This version has padded straps for the thighs making it more comfortable then most that just have the thick leather.

Tall Cage (£695)
I love cages! And I really want one of these for my own Dungeon.

Lots of people think of the traditional puppy type when you mention cages, but this is something very different. I like to think of it as unrestricted bondage. You may not have anything keeping you help tightly in one position so you are unrestricted, but you can’t get away and you can’t really move very much.

This cage is tall enough to fit most people (I’m 6’2″ and fit), and has three doors – the small middle one is particularly useful to get to the cock and balls! Collar, wrist and ankle restraints tied to the cage bars and there is nothing the sub can do but take what you decide to dish out. Delicious!

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