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As Frank once sang, and now the end is near its time to face the final curtain. And that end is to say goodbye to 2016 in just over a weeks time! This year has flown by, and you have filled it with so many great memories for me.Read More …
Day 20: Talk about something within kink / BDSM that you’re curious about/don’t understand.
One aspect of kink play that fascinates me that I don’t really understand or ‘get’ myself is that of age roleplay – adult babies, school boys / girls etc.
It is just something I can’t relate to, and I don’t have the experience or knowledge to build a strong role play scenario. But that doesn’t mean I’m not interested in learning more about it.
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Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they?
It most definitely has! It has opened up my social circle to include some of the most amazing people I the world, from across the world!
I definitely feel my life has been very enriched by my interests in kink.
The festive season is well and truly upon us now! But what to buy that boy / Sir / pup / pervert in your life? Here are some of my kinky Christmas present suggestions!
Short Rubber Covered Cane (£6.99)
Canes, oh the fun you can have with a simple cane and masochist! These short canes are great for using across the body, used gently a little reminder of who’s in charge or more forcefully for disciplining!
The small size allows for easy control, and packing away in an overnight bag for trips away or even a local BDSM play club.
And at just £7.00 the perfect stocking filler!
Spunk Hybrid Lube (£12.99)
Quite frankly lube makes for better sex! And good lube makes for amazing sex. Spunk lube is one of my favourite lubes on the market at the moment for fucking and play (I prefer powder lubes for Fisting and big toy ass play).
The name comes from the fact it looks like spunk, not really a selling point for me … the best bit is how well it works! It is a silicone hybrid lube so condom and rubber gear safe but also washes off super easily. And if it starts to dry a little when playing just add some water / spit / piss to get it all slippery again!
Tasteless, hypo-allergenic and all those other things you read about that sound good. But ultimately this does a great job of keeping your cock sliding in the bottoms hole! What more could you ask for in a lube.
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