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Come To The Edge

15th September 2016

A lot of clients who come for the first time have one thing in common … nerves. Nervousness of the unknown, not sure what to expect, and what will happen. And for all those I want to share one of my favourite poems:


Come to the edge.
We might fall.
Come to the edge.
It’s too high!
And they came,
and he pushed,
And they flew.


This really sums up the experiences of so many, and hopefully inspires you as to what is possible when you take that first step to the edge by making a phone call, sending a text or email.

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30 Days of Kink – Day 15

4th September 2016

Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.

Temporary piercing / needle play.

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30 Days of Kink – Day 14

3rd September 2016

How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?


Physical and mental … in fantasy you can do so much more then you may in reality. And of course you don’t have to worry about real life afterwards. Several people may want / need a severe caning but the marking that this can leave behind is something they aren’t able to have for when they leave.

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Masters & Their Boys

2nd September 2016

There is such a powerful connection between a Sir and his boy / pub / slave. These are some of my favourite pictures that show this intense and amazing connection and relationship.

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30 Days of Kink – Day 13

2nd September 2016

Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

It’s all about my favourite sexual organ – the brain! Blow jobs and fucking can be fun … but kink play is so much more, and so much better!! It is the personal connection, the power, the intensity of it, also the gear and toys too!

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