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This is going to be an ongoing blog series, four questions about me and my work. If there is a question you would like to see answered please send over and I will add it to the list for a future post.
What are you views about safe sex and / or bareback sex?
I only practice safer sex – absolutely no bareback.
I am also regularly checked and screened for HIV, Hep and all other STD’s to ensure my own personal safety and wellbeing as well as that of my clients.
I know many people prefer or will only have bareback anal sex, they each have different reasons – some don’t like the feel of condoms, some say they can’t stay hard with a condom on, some say it’s just not as much fun with a condom on. I don’t judge anyone who wants to fuck bareback / raw … I’m just not sure a lifetime of daily pills, blood tests and associated side effects just is it for a fuck. No matter how good it is.
And it is also important to remember that the only side effect is bareback sex isn’t HIV, it is countless other STI’s that can be passed on too. So please – don’t ask me to fuck without a condom.
I also use condoms on my toys, and they are all washed after use, sanitised in hospital grade disinfectant after use.
How do you like clients to feel about the experience when they leave?
I asked a client once, and all he could manage through his beaming smile was “Wow”. I like my clients to feel they have and the experience they were looking for, and ideally it surpassed their expectations.
I want them to feel they had an amazing time, experienced something special that they can remember and enjoy thinking about it.
I’m coming from work can I have a shower?
Of course, I have shower facilities and fresh clean towels for you to use before and after your session if you wish.
Whats your favourite ice cream?
Many years ago a friend told me they always ask this question on dates or in job interviews. They said everyone has a favourite, and you know it straight away – if you have to think too long or hard about it your trying to say something to impress, not what your preference is.
And for me, the answer is always Mint Choc Chip, or Ben & Jerry’s Caramel Chew Chew.