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Four Questions #2

26th July 2015

This is going to be an ongoing blog series, four questions about me and my work. If there is a question you would like to see answered please send over and I will add it to the list for a future post.

What are 5 things you can’t live without?

1) The internet
2) TiVo
3) Good friends
4) Good food
5) A positive optimistic outlook

What are your favourite condoms, lube, enemas, etc… ? Recommendations?

All depends on the activity! For anal play (be it a fingering or fisting) I always wear black Nitrile gloves. Black because they look sexy, and Nitrile as they are stronger and don’t grip the skin / hairs.

For condoms I tend to use Mates natural and king size either on dicks or toys. Then all toys are washed after each session and cleaned with a hospital grade disinfectant.

I have a few preferences on lube – for everyday lube either Liquid Silk or Super Slick .. the later tastes quite nice 😉 or for bigger toys / fisting play X-Lube or Fist Powder work amazingly well! Super super slippery, and you can mix to the desired consistency and unlike J-Lube washing after is really easy!

Or of course for fisting there is always the classic Crisco which remains a first favourite of greedy holes around the world.

Are you discreet?

100%. I never talk about my clients with anyone else, what happens is between you and I. If I am ever in a situation that I was to meet a client I would never acknowledge them or the fact they have been to see me. No records of visits are recorded or saved.

Wine or beer?

Wine, always wine over beer! I have never enjoyed any types of beers – ales, largers, bitters, stouts etc. Wine on the other hand I always enjoy – particularly a good Rioja or Malbec for a red, or Californian Chardonnay or New Zealand Sauvignon Blanc for white. If looking at bubbles Ruinart Bland de Blanc or even the superb English sparkling wine Nyetimber.

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A Picture Paints a Thousand Words

24th July 2015

zonead01

Rather excited, next week my first press – as in real old school printed on paper advert goes out! I think this gives a good idea of what I’m about.

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Friday Funday: Hiking

10th July 2015

hiking

I think next time I go hiking I need to make sure I wear I jockstrap to recreate this picture. Can’t beat naked outdoors time!

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All In The Detail

3rd July 2015

There are many people who have built their own dungeon / playroom, and there are many that you can hire around the country and world. Some I have done just that.

Over the years I have built my own collection up to build my Dungeon to explore my own fetishes and interests. It’s a long slow process, but one of the things that is really important to me is getting it right … getting the detail right. And for me part of that detail is lighting – if you have ever been to a see a play in the theatre you will realise how critical it is to creating the right atmosphere.

So in my room I currently have 8 ParCan lights, one LED floodlight, one smoke machine and a laser. I used to have three RGB floodlights, but found that they wouldn’t remember the last setting used, so this afternoon I removed them and installed one red LED floodlight. I’m going to add a blue one when I have expanded the lighting panel.

Remember, it’s all about the detail, and that detail gives you the wow factor when you walk in.

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Four Questions

1st July 2015

This is going to be an ongoing blog series, four questions about me and my work. If there is a question you would like to see answered please send over and I will add it to the list for a future post.

For how long have you been an escort?

Over 8 years now, and counting.

What do you enjoy most about the job?

The men I meet and helping guys explore their sexual fantasies, fetishes or desires. Or just giving them some time to forget about the outside world and have some ‘me time’.

I have had the pleasure of the company of men of many ages – 25 to 75 I’d say. And I really love seeing their reactions and their enjoyment from the time we spend together. That is very special to me.

For massage treatments are you naked?

Usually yes, though some clients do have preferences to certain types of clothing they like to see or feel such as lycra, panties, stockings, leather, trackies, jock strap etc. All of which is absolutely fine.

What’s your favourite cartoon?

As a kid I always loved Cities of Gold, Trapdoor and He-Man. Can’t imagine why the last one!

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