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30th June 2015


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Cockrings and Ball Stretchers

29th June 2015


These are great fun! The 3 red and black at the black and then grey and red in the middle are all different size ball stretchers. All made out of silicone they are very soft and super stretchy. Using a little lube you stretch them open and place on your scrotum so that they sit between the cock and balls.

They just give a gentle stretch to keep the scrotum tight (not painfully) but to ensure the balls are lifted up and the skin is taught over them. These are really comfortable to wear, I have worn them all day on occasion under clothes whilst out shopping!

Once stretched out slightly the balls become really sensitive – just running your fingers, maybe a feather or soft cloth over them feels heavenly! You can combine them together for more of a tug for those who love the sensation – for example the grey and red ones can be ‘stacked’ up.

The blue “sport fucker” is amazing, this is a unique cock ring design, again very soft and stretchy but this goes around the cock and behind the balls so the circle on the base here is flat against your body, then the raised bend goes between your balls and cock. It just lifts the cock and pulls the balls forward slightly. Again very comfortable and helps to keep everything alert!

The black one to the left is a slightly more intense version, gives a slight stretch to the balls by pushing them down in the ballsack, and wraps around the base of the cock.

Any of these can be incorporated into a sensual massage experience to give a whole new sensation and experience.

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Introductions – How We Begin

28th June 2015

Clients visit for many different reasons, and the age range from which they come is huge. But they are all welcome – young guys, to more mature and older guys. They are all treated with respect, honour and I work to give them all the most amazing time.

I never ask a client why they are visiting only what they would like – what type of treatment, or session would they like to experience. I then ask the same four questions at the start of each appointment:

  1. Any aches and pains
  2. Any injury or surgery in the past year
  3. Any parts of the body you don’t like being touched
  4. Any allergies

I will advise clients that if at any point anything they don’t like, enjoy or feel comfortable with to say and we will immediately stop. And to say if there is anything particular they do like, enjoy or would like to experience and I will do my best to make that happen.

For some clients, that is enough, but for others they like to share their reasons for the visit. What they are hoping it can help with, what they can take away from it, what they want to experience. All these discussions are of course completely confidential and never shared with anyone. For some being able to share their reasons, their story, they fantasy, or just to be able to talk without fear of judgement is a much a part of the session as the touch and what we do.

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Welcome to the Blog

27th June 2015

Just a hello and welcome to the new Tantric Male / Sir Dave UK blog!

I think the introduction covers most of what this is for, so please check back soon.

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